Marriage decisions are emotional. Families trust what’s told — “He’s divorced now,” or “She was never married before.” But the reality is — sometimes people hide their past marriages or lie about being divorced just to look “clean” in front of a new partner or family.
This isn’t rare. It happens in Chandigarh, Mohali, Panchkula, and across Punjab, especially in NRI alliances or second marriages. And jab sach baad mein samne aata hai — it’s not just shocking, it’s heartbreaking.
So, this guide is for you — if you’re a parent, a friend, or a person considering marriage — to spot these signs early and protect yourself emotionally and legally.
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Why People Hide Marriages or Lie About Divorce
People lie for 3 big reasons:
- Social Image:
“Divorced” still carries judgment in society, especially for women or NRIs, so they pretend to be single. - Financial Motive:
Some hide ongoing cases or alimony issues to marry into a financially stable family. - Fear of Rejection:
They think — “If I say I was married before, the proposal will be cancelled.”
But truth always finds a way to surface — especially today when everything is digitally traceable.
Real Red Flags You Should Never Ignore
| Suspicious Behaviour | What It Could Mean |
|---|---|
| Avoids talking about past relationships | May be hiding previous marriage or separation |
| Always changes topic when asked about ex or past life | Emotional diversion = concealment |
| No photos or old memories on social media | Clean-up to hide history |
| Hesitant to show government ID | Married name or old details may appear |
| Suddenly rushes into marriage without formal meetings | Avoiding background exposure |
| Avoids legal paperwork or registered marriage | Fear of getting caught legally |
How to Detect Hidden Marriages (DIY Steps)
1. Check Social Media History
- Look for old photos, tags, or comments.
- Don’t just check Facebook — use Instagram, LinkedIn, and Twitter too.
- Reverse image search can reveal old uploaded wedding photos.
👉 Tip: Check archived stories or hidden albums — those often hold clues.
2. Cross-Check Address & ID Proofs
Aadhaar, PAN, or Passport can show marital titles or address overlap.
Compare old documents with current ones — mismatched surnames or duplicate addresses are big hints
3. Ask Subtle Questions
In polite conversation, ask:
- “Do you still talk to school or college friends?”
- “Where were you staying during 2018–2020?”
Sometimes the answer timeline itself exposes gaps that don’t match their story.
4. Court Record Search (India Specific)
Many people hide ongoing divorce or maintenance cases.
You can check:
- ecourts.gov.in (enter name to see if any case is filed).
- Family Court portal in your district.
- If the person works abroad, check NRI cell or embassy complaint databases.
5. Talk to Local References
Neighbours or old family friends in Chandigarh or their hometown often know the truth.
A simple, casual question like “Beta kab shaadi hui thi?” can reveal everything.
6. Document Verification Before Engagement
- Marriage certificate check (Sub-Registrar Office Chandigarh).
- Police verification request (you can apply formally for background clearance).
- Birth certificate / passport: previous spouse name might appear in some cases.
Real Case Example (Chandigarh)
In 2023, a family from Sector 46, Chandigarh fixed their daughter’s marriage with an “NRI businessman” from Canada. He claimed to be divorced. When checked, his divorce case was still ongoing in a Canadian court. He wasn’t divorced — just separated.
The family quietly cancelled the engagement.
The father said later:
“We were not suspicious, just careful. That saved our daughter’s future.”
How to Verify a Divorce Claim the Right Way
- Ask for divorce decree copy — not just “court papers.”
- Check if the document has final order date and judge’s signature.
- Verify if the divorce was mutual or contested.
- For NRIs — check through embassy legal desk (they often have marital status verification services).
👉 Red flag: A “petition filed” paper ≠ divorce granted.
Quick Checklist – Before You Say Yes
| Area | What to Verify | How |
|---|---|---|
| Marital History | Past spouse or marriage evidence | Court search / Local inquiry |
| Divorce Status | Final decree available? | Check family court order |
| Social Media | Old photos / connections | Reverse search & timeline check |
| IDs | Consistent names & addresses | Aadhaar / Passport |
| Legal Records | Ongoing cases | eCourts / RTI / Police |
| Emotional Behaviour | Avoids discussions or reacts angrily | Observe pattern |
Remember
It’s not wrong to trust,
but it’s wiser to verify before trusting completely.
“The truth doesn’t destroy love — lies do.”
Being alert today can save you from lifelong regret tomorrow.
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✍️ Author: Raushan KP
About the Author:
Raushan KP is a professional content writer with over 3 years of writing experience, specializing in research-driven storytelling and awareness-based articles.
For the past 2 years, Raushan has been focused exclusively on crafting insightful content for the private investigation and detective services industry across India.
He believes that the best writing doesn’t sell — it guides, informs, and protects readers from real-world risks like fraud, deceit, and misinformation.
Every article is written with the purpose of helping people make informed, responsible, and reality-based decisions.
Author Note:
This article was written purely for educational and awareness purposes.
Readers are encouraged to consult a certified private investigator or legal advisor before taking any personal or professional decision based on the information shared here.
